HOT !!

Just Enjoy It

In every scene in our life we had varies emotions, feelings on something. Before we did something we do have an options. We can choose to be overwhelm, glee, sad, excited, tense or cool when encounter every moment in our life.

When we choose to feel happy and cool, we ought not to feel tension in the scenes because we already make up our mind that we wanted to feel happy and enjoy.

As an example, my father ask me to go to the mall with him but I want to watch my favourite show. I'll sure felt sad, but I make up my mind that I want to feel happy even I missed my favourite tv show. And when I reached mall, I do discover something that makes me feel happy other watch tv programmes at home. So that is how it works.

We human beings are gifted with feelings, the decision is in our hands. We choose to make a differences. Just enjoy the moment. If you put a level when can you feel happy, you just don't get it. It'll take years for you to feel happy again because you always feel unsatisfied with those things that already happen in your life. 

The Natural Process of Renewal

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Syara, what do you do when trouble comes knocking?

Bonus Lesson 6 - The Natural Process Of Renewal.  

Over 400 years ago William Shakespeare recognized and shared 
many great secrets to living a rich and happy life.  These same 
secrets ring as true today as they did when Queen Elizabeth reigned 
over the American Colonies.

At a recent production of "Romeo and Juliet" we were treated 
to an extra measure of Universal Truths through the character 
of the Friar in conversation with Romeo.

Romeo was dwelling on his misfortunes, focusing on his loss 
rather than his gain.  As punishment for killing a man, Romeo, was 
banished from Verona.  The Friar forcefully reminded him that he 
could easily have been sentenced to death.  The Friar reminded 
Romeo to be patient and soon Juliet would be by his side.  Romeo 
had ever so much to be thankful for.  His banishment was really 
a blessing.

We all reach points in our lives when we feel all is lost.  Nothing 
seems to go right.  Even our greatest successes will sometimes 
vanish into thin air.  This is especially difficult after we
believe we have attained a healthy degree of enlightenment and
spirituality, but of course, there's always more growing to do.  

What we're really experiencing is the Natural Process of Renewal.  

Many refer to this phenomenon as chemicalization.  It feels like 
endless storms, forest fires, floods, the heavy darkness just 
before dawn - all natural occurrences that signal dramatic change.  
It serves to clear out the old deadwood and revive the new and
fresh.  It provides the preparation time for the great things to
come, like rainbows and new plants.

Major change requires major revision.  A reordering of habits, 
ideas, priorities, maybe even a major shift in values.  In order 
for a seed to grow, it needs sunshine and food but also rain.  
Rain often comes to our world in a storm.

These times of chemicalization need to be welcomed.  They will pass 
in time and you can be assured that eventually the clouds will 
part and the sun will shine again.

The most important thing you can do when the storms come is to 
remember to be grateful for what you do have.  Just as the Friar 
reminded Romeo of all his blessings, you need to remember all you 
have that is good.  Especially during a storm.  Thank the Universe 
for being allowed to grow and change and welcome the shifts that 
come.  


For in time the Lord of Wealth will visit you.  It's a sure thing.

Diane Pauley

Avoid Serious Relationship

                                                                                                           

Most of us would think, that we are just friends, but who knows what inside your heart isn't it?

So this is my experience, I get to know somebody new from a camp that I went for the past few weeks. He is funny, sporting when on stage and always make everybody around him laugh. And we get connected with Facebook and cell phone.

We always chatting and text each other. And not just chatting actually, video chat. He always wanted me to sing. So I sang a few songs for him. He can play guitar. So every night starting from 11.30 pm till 3 am, we sang together. Then, we go to sleep. :) This things actually quite worrying my mother.

So she advised me not to sleep too late until midnight. Then she says that if somebody chatting over than one hour that means something had happen to both of us. ??? So as for me, I wanted to avoid this kind of things from happening and I must make my move.

My mother also asked me , what name that I use to call him. I said 'abang' because he is one year older than me. Then she said just called 'awak' and 'saya'. Because that kind of nickname would make him feel special and attracted to me. I'm not sure if it is true, but I know it is for my own benefit.
Then, my mother told me a story about teens at age around 16. Usually starting from Form 4, there would exist 'monkey love'. Because they thought when they were in Form 4 its their honeymoon time. But actually they were wrong. In Form 4, we need to study hard, because all the topics are new to us and it needs a lot of focus. So, when they already got that kind of 'love' feelings, I'm sure they'll forget about their studies. For Form 5, they will be having an important examination. Then, they cannot do anything, unless than hoping that they didn't fail. They would feel stressful and always fail in test. And then, their result turned down, they will start to look for a job with small pay. All their dreams would just end like that. Their ambition would just sweep off and they will keep regretting their past time.

So, boys and girls avoid being in a serious relationship at this precious age. Put your ambition as the first thing that you must fulfil. Have a pity with your parents. Make their hope become reality.

Friendship

Friendship ???
What do it takes to make friendship last longer. I don't really care about this matter because I'm always alone. To me, as long as we lived on this earth, we must make friends but friends is not everything. As for me the real person who is close enough to me is MYSELF! Because I know myself better than anybody does. If I'm lying I'm the first person who knows that I'm lying! Neither my friends nor my family members.

Sometimes, it is weird when I can tell all my problems to somebody that I just knew. Yes, he is older than I am, so I sought for some advice from him. Maybe he is not that brilliant as TIGS students but he has that care feeling inside him.


Well, that is me. I lie to some boys whom had feelings for me. There would be a simple test for them that I created and some of them caught up with their own feelings. Actually those feelings are just a toy! Playing and making unreal decision of life. So do not be easily get cheat by our own feelings. Remember, we are the one who control our feelings not feelings control us. Real decision is when we decided with our thinking cap (brain). Not by our hearts. Be rational !!

Teach + Patience

For last week, I be a teacher for my little brother. He had an exam. So, now I wonder how teacher can teach us without enough patience??

First day, I still have my patience. Second day, my patience decrease.Third day, I mad at him. I asked him the same thing and he cannot answer me. All he know is playing computer games. I asked him to repeat that exercise 10 times, he also mad at me. But who cares, I trying to teach him a real lesson, so that he will pass his examination with flying colors. Then my parents can be proud of m efforts on teaching him. 

It is totally exhausting!!!

Be Brave

For the last 3 days, I have been in a camp. I wanted to share some of my experience with those of my new friends. This is what I wrote when I was there. During the second night (10th Nov 2011, 05.15 pm).

To be here in this camp, is like an amazing story that had happen in my life. To be brave like those who already achieve their aim in their life. Everyday, I always dream on that I will be somebody with that brave in me. I think I already crafted those bravery in me. Because I always wanted to try new things in every episode of my life. As long as we live we must try to make something honorable, something that we can be proud of.
                    
Now, I know, to be brave is not that easy. But we must conquer our fear to ensure our dream can be reality. In our dream life, we always wanted to be that 'someone'. But in reality life, the feelings of fear will come and only ourselves can control that fear keep on control ourselves.

Searching for our own true self need a hard efforts. But it is a definite thing to do, to make sure we know ourselves better, what are capable of to ensure our next stage in our life.
              
Some of the boys that I met here are not that brave and always joking even they were on stage. For boys, the are brave among of their friends. They are coward when they were asked to speak in front of the audience. And usually most of them ought to not speak.

Nowadays, its hard to find a real leader especially boys. They must aware of their responsibilities for their country. Our country need someone that has the capability to proceed the effort. 

Relationship

This phrase brings a lot of meaning. Relationship is important in our life. I  But, I want to focus on one topic about this..."Relationship in Friendship".
                                            
Most of teenagers who have a facebook account will make a status like 'single' or 'its complicated' or 'in relationship' or 'married to'. Well, most of the relationship among teenagers are love. 'Fake Love'. Because when teen in love they will be very 'blind' until they forget about their study.

As an example:
When they saw their bf or gf pictures with other girl or boy. The jealousy will automatically grew inside their heart. Then, they will get mad at their gf or bf.

is this what love means???

Based on the example above, the jealousy that grew inside you are just toying with your feelings. It has no meaning at all. Why you should cry when you lose him or her? Why?Why? Why don't you cry because of your wrong doings to your parents. That is worth more than you cry for you girlfriend or boyfriend. To me this is totally nuts.

I had an experience being a couple when I was in Standard 6. I am a friendly girl, so that boy was attracted to me. I accept him. Before that we were very friendly together just like with my other classmates. After that, he always jealous seeing me with his friends. Then, he always like avoiding me. So, as the conclusion, boys and girls will be more comfortable if we were just being friends.

Sorry if I hurt your feelings.  

Challenge In Reading

For a beginners like me, it is very hard indeed to finish a thick novel. But I take this as a challenge. My target is, if I can finished it by the end of month November. I can proceed on reading all my fathers' book. But my father is a fast reader. His ambition is to publish his own book like Mahathir Mohamad.

This is a book that I meant just now

He also thought me to dream about you are going to do first. It's the same like praying, asking the god to fulfill our wishes. The god always know what do we wanted. For one condition we must be a good person.

Do Not Afraid of Trying

Hi reader!

I'm about to share my experienced when I try something new. Firstly, I love English and singing. Since I was in primary school I always try to be a good story teller. I know my ability, but during my first shot, I don't really memorize the story but I stand out on the stage, and tell them only until the part that I remember. At that time, fear was all over me.

When I was in Form 1, I went for debate competition among class. I and another two of my friend represent our class. Actually, I don't know how the debate is, how should we speak? I know nothing about debating. Then, I asked my friend, Regina to translate my script into English. During my turn, I don't know what I'm talking about. I just read out the script that she had written for me.

That one was my first trial. Second trial will be another two weeks from now. I already asked Nimmy and Nicole, who are really good in English and especially debate. My father also helps me on preparing the script. Another important thing in debate is POI (point of information). When the speaker is delivering the speech, we must POI to get marks. When there's POI, it would be terrific.

Next is singing. Last Thursday,(20 oct 2011), the teachers make a Glee Concert for Form 3 students. Every class must send at least one representative. So, I went for that concert. All my friends asked me to participate. So, I try. I'm very scared. When the songs start, my voice shivers. I make my friends disappoint. That was my first trial. Next year I'll try again. I can speak on stage, I can deliver anything on stage but not singing.

Next time , I'll conquer my fear. One of the habits of high achiever is to conquer your fear. My father said that we must empty our mind when we are on stage. Do not think too much about how is it going to happen.

So, conquer your fear and please do not be afraid to try something new. You can plan but do make your way. Only you can change yourself . Build your confident and be brave. With that I thank you. 

Between

Hi. What will you do if you dislikes somebody?

As for me, when I dislikes someone, I would try to keep my distance from him/her. Because it will only give you a heartache whenever you try to understand her. 

There's one in my class. I know her since I was in Form 1. The first time I look at her, I shouldn't get near her. But then, she become my classmates. One thing I hate about her is she likes to denied everything that I tried to do. But sometimes, she would be very useful to me. And sometimes, I can cooperate with her. I become her enemy, well me too. 

 Now, when I suggest my ideas, she would thought about it very careful. And sometimes it is acceptable to her. It makes me wanted to get near her. But, she like moody sometimes. It  makes me confused. She always get problems. One after another. But I can see whether it is really her fault or not. Sometimes, I felt pity for her. She's kind of rude sometimes but she is smart. 

Well, that's all I about her.  

THE STRENGTH IN MUSLIM

Hi, this is based on my knowledge about Muslims. Doa or pray is something that Muslims do in their daily life. After prayers, they asked for goodness in their life and avoid unwanted events to happen in their life from God. They also ask for forgiveness for their sins. This shows that Muslims are humble, they know who they are. To them, they are only a small livings on this earth that is why the always ask for helps because they aren't strong enough. They aware of it. But. they are some of them whom have a strong heart to move in their life. The key is , when they remember Allah is always by their side, the knew that they are not alone on this planet.
As for now, it is hard to find a true Muslims that have true faith. In order to get Allah help we must obey his rules. HIS rules ares simple, like, we must be good to people, do not talk bad about them, helping each other, smile and patience. Those are the basics in  our life.

Another strength in us are fasting. Not everyone can fast during the day. We cannot eat or drink, we need to control our mouth not to speak bad things. We need to perform prayers, recite the Qoran and Dhikr. But, we do not do this all day. We all have works to do like the others. When we work like others that take their meals during the day this shows that we are strong we can survive.
This is the words that I heard from my classmates, it is during examination. After Math test.

"Aku tak bolehlah buat Math kalau puasa. Macam susah nak fikir"

This is totally wrong. A true Muslims would never regrets if they are fasting. This means that she does not have faith in herself and she blames the fasting month. Fasting is hungry but that is the challenge and those who are fasting will be rewarded by Allah. If people in the past can win a war while they are fasting, why can't we ? We only use our mind to think. We do not use much energy during examination. During the past, jihad is a war to stands the rules but now, jihad is to fight our own desire.  

HOLIDAY TRIP DURING RAYA

Hi readers, during the first and second raya me and my family went back to Selangor to meet my granny. We celebrated first raya there. All my cousins were there. We take many pictures. Also there's a new pondok outside the house. After meet and greet them, my father decided to go to BOOK FAIR in KLCC. We managed to get out from the house at 2.30pm because my father had to attend the guest. My cousin, Syasya followed us.

Syasya and Imran 

     When we arrived, we entered the mall, and went straight to a tunnel that leads us to HALL 4. There are many people there, buying books. All the price were very cheap. Books that cost RM199 dropped to RM19.90. My father bought 6 great books. While me and Syasya bought an English reference books. My brother Imran bought a few science comics. Mother, she bought a thick puzzle book.

On the way to the book fair 

A talks on great minds 

KUALA LUMPUR TWIN TOWERS

 

Bookstores 

     Then we went to Hall 3 without my father. It is a stationery place. I walked with Syasya. We searched for a sticky flag to highlight notes in books. We bought 5 sets for rm12. If usual, rm 6 for one. After that we got out of the hall and went to the fountain. There's a playground, swimming pool and a lake. We walked along the park and reached the mall. We bought a bread at Auntie's Anne. Then we went to the biggest bookstore I had ever been, KINOKUNIYA. It looks like a library and have a bench. Its very comfortable.  
      On the second raya, all four of us went to Tasik Titiwangsa. An open area where many people came to have some peace in their mind. My brother and I played at the playground. My father just sit under a shelter nearby. After feeling tired we sat there and have some refreshment. We read  books, then we felt sleepy, we took a nap for a while. Before we moved home we stopped at the control car circuit, we saw some racing car, moved swiftly in the circuit, it sounds like a real racing car.
 

Background : Playground in Taman Tasik Titiwangsa 

  Then, we decided to go the Mid Valley, which I've never been. It is a very big mall, with shops here and there. There was also many people there. We ate at Burger King then, we went to the MPH Bookstores. This one also very big. There was two actually. One at the center, another at the end. I went both. The MPH at the end, they provide a large space for readers to sit. We sat for a few minutes and went straight home to Cheras.

EXAM RESULT

WHAT a disappointing result. I was so close to get an 'A'. Is it to hard to get it. I guess I still need to work hard to make sure that my marks are 90 and above. That one is real A. This is my plan :

1. Mind-mapping
2. Always related the subjects to life
3. Make it fun - figure out funny words (especially in History )
5. Exercises
6. Marathon (answer questions in all subjects)

I find it hard, but this is the only way I can get A. I need to try harder in every test.

BAHASA /LANGUAGE

BAHASA 

Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.                       In this poems, it said that       
Bahasa adalah pengatur                                    with language we are able to 
pucuk fikiran yang bertabur                             deliver our ideas.  
bahasa adalah pelentur
ranting perasaan yang bersiur.                         We can learn better with a 

 Dengan bahasa                                                                   correct language used. 

terlihat fakta padu
terlihat sinar ilmu
terlihat cinta biru .
Dengan bahasa
pemimpin memaparkan arah                       Leaders can leads us well in
di pantas siasah                                          politics.
dengan bahasa
orang beriman menikmati ibadah                We can do our prayers with
khusyuk dan pasrah.                                   all  our heart.
Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.
Dengan bahasa budi dipertinggi
mesra diperlebar                                       With language we become one, 
dengan bahasa                                           friendly, and succeed to form 
kita menjadi kita                                        unity among us. 
bersama
Jika tanpa bahasa
bagaimana akan kita setujui
perjanjian ini?
Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.

KEBAIKAN ITU TERHIMPUN DALAM 4 PERKARA :
1) PERCAKAPAN
2) DIAM
3)PANDANGAN
4)GERAK-GERI

Tiap-tiap percakapan itu tidak disertai dengan mengingati Allah adalah SIA-SIA
Tiap-tiap diam itu tidak disertai dengan mengingati Allah adalah LEKA
Tiap-tiap pandangan itu tidak disertai dengan pengambilan iktibar adalah LALAI
Tiap-tiap gerak-geri itu tidak diikuti dengan perhambaan kepada Allah adalah KOSONG

(Saiyidina Ali bin Talib)                                                                            (petikan BROTHER FERIZ< FB)

BAHASA /LANGUAGE

BAHASA 

Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.                            
Bahasa adalah pengatur
pucuk fikiran yang bertabur
bahasa adalah pelentur
ranting perasaan yang bersiur. 

Dengan bahasa
terlihat fakta padu
terlihat sinar ilmu
terlihat cinta biru .
Dengan bahasa
pemimpin memaparkan arah

this one okay but not the 'hru' 

di pantas siasah
dengan bahasa
orang beriman menikmati ibadah
khusyuk dan pasrah.                                                                    
 
Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.

budak-budak muda je yang faham bahasa sms sekarang

Dengan bahasa budi dipertinggi
mesra diperlebar
dengan bahasa
kita menjadi kita
bersama                                                        
Jika tanpa bahasa

bagaimana akan kita setujui

perjanjian ini?

Mari kita berbahasa sebaiknya.                                                           (dipetik dari Antologi Anak                       Bumi Tercinta karya Rahman Shaari  )

Karya ini menyeru kita berbahasa dengan sebaik-baiknya. Malangnya, sekarang ini bahasa seharian kita semuanya menjadi sinkope (kependekan). Tidak dinafikan bahasa untuk pesanan ringkas lebih cepat, tapi kenapa sesetengah perkataan ada yang ditambah 'w', 'e'.

Contohnya : 'blew tu'   sebenarnya bila tu ?  

SYNOPSIS OF THE CROOKED BANISTER

                   A MOAT TO CROSS THE HOUSE  


  

         A FREAKING HOUSE

This story is written by Carolyn Keene. It's about a girl named Nancy Drew, who is an amateur detective that solved many case with the help from his father, Mr. Drew and her friends, Bess, George, Burt, Ned and Dave.

A ZIGZAG HOUSE 

Nancy and her friends Bess and George spend an exciting week exploring a mysterious zigzag house with its fantastically crooked staircase, its bizarre serpent picture, and an unpredictable robot that nearly cause the young detective to lose her life. But despite the threat of danger from the robot, Nancy is determined to solve the mystery of the weird house and to locate the missing owner, who is wanted by the police.

The house is situated at Mountain ville. The owner name is Rawley Banister, who is a little bit freak and weirdo. He is wanted by the police because he and his partner, Fitch or Clyde Mead are a swindler. They cheated many people.

CROOKED STAIRCASE 

POISONOUS PORTRAITS

It takes a keen logic and quick thinking for the young detective to plow through the tangled thicket of clues and find the key to this complex puzzle. With the help of her friends, Nancy captures and elusive swindler and uncovers the secret of the crooked banister/ Rawley , but not before they have several hair-raising adventures-one on a broken bridge over flaming water, another in a hidden room with poisonous portrait.                                

WATER ON FIRE